The first step to freedom from the devastating "Gay" lifestyle is to want to change. Jesus Christ bled and died on Calvary's Cross to save the sinner trapped in sin. If you admit (confess) to God on your knees (in prayer) that you want to turn-away from the "Gay" lifestyle, then ask for forgiveness for your willful wrongdoing (repent) and ask for a washing away of your sin by the shed blood of Jesus Christ. Instantaneously you will be freed from the power of sin and filled with the Holy Spirit to give you power to develop and maintain a victorious life from this sin. Now see below for more important instruction.
 

The secret is to discipline yourself to a life of holiness (seperated from sin and dedicated to God). The following steps are crucial to continue in victory. 

1. Develop an active prayer life (talk to God everyday).
2. Read the Bible daily (start with the Gospel of John).
3. Find a Bible Believing Church (that believes the Bible to be true, inerrant, and the authority of God.)
4. Listen to Christian radio, music, and TV programming.
5. Detach yourself from people and/or places that will take you back  into this sin.